The only thing Western govts understand and respond to is violence and more violence! Now maybe people can understand why average Americans refuse to disarm! They don’t trust their govt! And they know the only defense is to meet violence with more violence.
And that is what Hamas, Houthis and Hezbollah have to understand. There is no reasoning, no human decency that will make Israel or US govt stop their genocide. They will only stop when the costs (economic, political etc) make it unsustainable for them to continue the killings.