All your “WTF’s” meaning nothing. Israel is one tiny Jewish State in a sea of Islamic States with abysmal human rights, religious rights, women’s rights, the right of free speech and expression.
The main factor that made it possible for a religious and ethnic minority in the Middle East (the Jews), to achieve their present status and affluence, free of the historical persecution and discrimination to which they were subjected in the past are some of the strongest reasons that justify a different stance in Israel’s case. They cannot be forced to be absorbed into the Islamic world because of international opinions, mainly because Jews have earned the right to never again rely on international law and opinions for their protection. It is that simple.