The common quote is:
“the bride is beautiful but she is married to another man”
Writers have altered the details of the story as they’ve told it over time, which isn’t surprising given that the core, in all their variations, lacks a primary source to refer back to,
there are no names of the two emissaries/rabbis who are said to have been sent,
no detailed mission or report, and those telling the story have usually been
less concerned with historical accuracy than with advancing political agendas.