You obviously do not understand the Islamic mentality. There are no non-combatants in Islam and it there are any, than they are well hidden. Since Mo the only thing that rules the masses are strong men and strong clan leaders. Jihad is a prerequisite to be able to rule.
Death must not be minimized as that is the only measure of success when dealing with Islam. When in Rome do as the Romans. Israel has no business being a Democracy in a sea of savages that know no meaning of morality or democracy.