In this report you can see the difference between Jews and Arabs. You see that action was denounced by the Jewish press and the rabbinate. The Arab press and the mosques, in contrast, have not denounced the October 7 terrorist attacks.
Also, the number of 250 killed in Deir Yassin has been debunked, but the number of dead is not what’s important to your post. What is important is the differing ethea of the Jews and the Arabs. With rare and repugnant exception, Jews revile Baruch Goldstein, who murdered 29 Arabs. With scant exception in the Arab world, mass murderers of Jews (and westerners) are revered.
Every culture has evil people, but some cultures are better than others, to the degree that they respect individual rights, women’s rights, gay rights, freedom of thought, freedom of speech, the right to peaceably assemble, freedom of religion, scientific inquiry and artistic expression (etc.)
By what metric do you measure cultures?