1. Defending homeland isn’t unpleasant, that’s right, but some of the approaches are for sure, for example by sexual abuse (based on the news).
2. Jewish believers also say “1) Jews should not try to forcefully re-possess the Holy Land and end their exile by themselves. 2) Jews should not rebel against the non-Jewish nations. 3) The non-Jewish nations should not treat the Jews with excessive harshness.