You are.
Again, it must be stressed upon that the above saying cannot be
verified as authentic due to the fact that there is a discrepancy in
its Sanad, or chain of transmitters. As such, Muslims are not required
to believe in these Hadith for there is a chance that it may have been
fabricated or corrupted along the way.
Even so, as dubious as it may be, nowhere does it mention anything
about virgins being rewarded to anyone who commit suicide for any
reason. What it does mention however are wives, which scholars have
argued, should not be translated literally for it may convey a
metaphorical meaning. Like mentioned, even Muslims do not believe that
Hadith, but westerners have definitely made hay with it.
Today, the myth of the 72 virgins remains potent ammunition for those
who wish to see their point of view prevail against Islam. Entities
like the media have twisted this alleged saying to suit their fancies
and smear Islam with ridicule and humiliation.
So, when a Palestinian youth is driven to kill him self to destroy
Israeli soldiers, it is because he wants to indulge himself in endless
heavenly erotica. It is never about the mistreatment of the Israelis.
Nothing is done to show the real reason why so many young chaps have
offered to give up their lives.